We want Ducati to stay in business and be successful ($, not just design). It's been through trying times before and almost went under more than once. It has to be better and continue to get better to survive. Diehards cannot keep a company alive. Reliability problems get old pretty fast for most. Ducati asks a lot for some of their bikes, relative to their competition. I think the Ducati "magic" can wither if it doesn't get better. Its competition is getting better. You can argue the competition doesn't have some of that Ducati "magic" but I don't think there's enough of those customers and Ducati has to keep new customers its been doing a good job of getting. They're the coolest bikes no doubt but most customers will drop problematic bikes. Sportbikes may be the most problematic as a group with the hard lives most will lead. But Ducati, like Harley, is somewhat limited in how they can push design without alienating their core customer base. (I know, I'm a Harley guy too) Can you imagine a Ducati inline 4? We all love the look and sound of the Duc 90 degree V-twin. That rear cylinder is a heat source that can be bothersome but do we want it to go away? We want Ducati to get stronger so we can get better bikes and support. A bigger customer base is good for all of us.
I had always wondered why Ducati's ran so hot but that really makes sense. They don't run much hotter than most, but because the cylinder and header pipe are right below us we feel the heat more.
And I agree with what you are saying. I've had a Duc for the last 7 years but some of these problems get old. I finally traded my 1098 in because it would take about 5-10 minutes to start every time (no exaggeration). It just became too much.
Other than the heat and stalling twice, I haven't had any issues with my 1299. I really enjoy it and it has renewed my passion for Ducati. And I think the mirrors work great.