One other thing that came to me about this post (as I was at the track yesterday): I had a larger guy ask me about the same type of issues on his SFV4S a couple track days ago, and I asked him about his DES settings. He said he had it in active and he thought he had things where they should be. When I mentioned I only do track days with the active suspension off, and run a stiffer damping in the fixed mode, he said he would try that and afterward mentioned that it worked wonders for him.
So if you haven't tried that option it may be worth it, start with your damping settings on the higher side of midrange and go from there. You can switch back to the active settings for a more comfortable ride on the street, one of the perks of the SFV4S.