I agree. This is why I have never gotten into it. However music, or emergent phone calls seems like a good idea since I’m on call for work and of course family issues that may arise. I ride alone a lot anyway. But focus is key as you stated.Got a sena 20, it has a novelty factor but only use it in a group that uses coms sparingly for road conditions etc, otherwise it devolves into distracting chatter you should be having at the next stop. I rarely use it, much prefer to focus on riding.