Who's arguing?
I didn't build my house but I sure AF didn't pay another man to put in a backsplash.
All the prior talk about kids etc., have them help. They won't remember how many hours you put in at work to pay for the house or the bike but they will remember working on the house or bike with you.
Poorly worded on my part. I meant that it would be pointless to argue about it.
It’s certainly nice to spend time with your kids doing productive stuff though. That’s a far better reason to do something than doing it just to save some money, unless you need to of course.
Unfortunately, doing things yourself often seems to often be the only way to get the job done correctly (and to know it’s been done correctly).