It was possible to get one even if you didn't get an invite. The invitations were sent to good customers of Ducati (be it previous owners of the Desmosidici, other high end bikes, multiple new bikes), and/or good customers of Ducati dealers.
I did not originally receive an invite but was able to get a bike by having a good relationship with a few dealers (and by luck that there was some hesitation about buying a bike for this kind of money sight unseen).
so...
You somehow managed to avoid the media blitz and endless chatter/controversy among ducatisti (on perceived value) of this bike for the last 6 months and now you suddenly want one and are blaming who, exactly?