I don't believe there is a ECU update specifically for the 41T sprocket.
The current "latest" map was released end of 2012. December sometime. You don't have to take the 41T upgrade offer to receive the ECU update.
I had it applied when I went in to have the header heat shield upgrade. Initially the bike felt smoother and more responsive, but after a few weeks I don't think it made much difference at all. I suspect this is due to the long term fuel trim being reset during the ECU update.
After about a month, I went back in and took up the 41T upgrade offer. This has made a pretty big difference in ride-ability at mere commuting speeds.
Like I posted in another thread. the 2012 Pani always felt like it was "out of gear" like I was riding a gear too high for the speed I was going. With the 41t sprocket, I feel the FDR is just about right.
@Copyia: If you already have the tools, then I can't see it taking more than a hour or two to do.
Fraser's gave me the option of buying the Sprocket, Chain and cog at the "special" price and DIY, but they recommended that they did it.
I did the sums, and buying all the tools required, would have costed me a lot more.