Sorry Baggers and Pani but you are both wrong, one scratch or a bit of rim damage does not ruin a carbon wheel. You need to understand the material, it's FRP or fibre reinforced plastic i.e its the fibres that give the strength and they are simply held in position by the resin. The resin is relatively weak and has very little strength, but if you scratch carbon nothing happens unless its a deep gouge that crosses multiple layers of fibre in a critical area. The rim is at the extremity so a scratch there is not going to affect it at all, you have to look at the load path. Carbon does not flex, it's failure mode is catastrophic i.e its works until it doesnt and all wheel manufacturers have considerable safety margins so I wouldnt worry about failure. On the tyre changing front the only thing you have to worry about is point loading and understanding that you are dealing with a hard resin (plastic) material not metal. Carbon is nuts strong, you would work harder to smash a carbon wheel with a sledgehammer than a metal one.
The problem with carbon wheels it that they dont hold heat like metal so you have to work to keep heat in the tires, they are illegal in most racing organisations, they are stupid expensive, if you overheat a disc which I have seen several times on the rear due to master cylinder issues, then you really could lose the wheel. But the biggest problem is for the Starbucks crowd with anal retentive cosmetic habits on their bikes, one scratch and they're toast so it's better to display rather than ride.
btw BMW oem Thyssenkrupp's had spoke to rim fractures, but think thats fixed now.